He acted attentive and kind and affectionate, and he made me feel like I was the only woman who mattered. The promise of Prince Charming takes us as high as the moon, only to have it plunge us deep into disappointment. Maybe it took being away from me to make him realize how much he liked me. The experience was just as great as the first date, even better.
At the end of the night, we kissed goodnight in my kitchen, and I felt like I was floating on a cloud. I managed to move on, but I always thought about him. We laughed and talked and kissed and even held hands.
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